Is it true?
Bad things happen to good people.
A statement I always heard in so many stages in my life. Whenever something bad happen to me and I wonder why out load, I get two responses. It’s a godly test, or ‘bad things happen to good people’. But why? I always wondered why this seems so true. I was never successful in knowing the reason behind this, but out of experience I have came to the conclusion that bad things happen but eventually anything that might come out of the bad is good. As if we are always set on the good path, sometimes other things effect us to get out of this path but eventually we get back to it. It’s an optimistic point of view I know, but it’s better than just ‘bad things happen to good people’.
What do you think about that? I am sending this question to you to know exactly other people thoughts about it. As I am sure we-good people have felt that sometimes in our lives.
During my life experience I have been through so many situations where I was challenged and all my ideals were challenged. At this moment sitting and remembering every single situation I’ve been though. I am thinking about all the things I had to deal with, wondering about the reasons; which I am not able to find except that people are flawed and for that they tend to hurt each other.
I remember not long ago, I met a friend. I thought he was really good. I trusted him. The more I got to know him the more I got to know his personality and how he sometimes tend to lie. Being myself I gave him an excuse (It’s just a small lie to make himself look better to me). A lie which is something I cannot take lightly. I believe that a person who is able to lie, is a person who is able of doing all kind of bad things. Now back to the story. I got to know some common friends, and then started to learn more things that doesn’t fit to the stories he have shared with me. I started to be very cautious of him. During all of that I keep being really nice and supportive to him. As I knew that in some places he needed some fixing, and sadly I thought I will be the one who will do the fixing. I was wrong. I think what led him to ‘block me’ (It was a defensive thing he does, blocking people) came from fear. He was afraid that I got closer to a friend that knew things about him, things that if I learned I would have thought less of him for it. I understand his view but I don’t understand why he’ve done all that. He decided to block me, decided to delete all my contact information and I was ok with it because it was easier and I wanted him to be free of fear, free of me knowing his real self. For me what happened still hurts. I don’t regret knowing him, being friends with him, and introducing him to my closest friends; It’s all apart of the experience that I call my life. I ask myself will it stop hurting? I know the answer and it’s no. Just because I cared so much and I truly invested in this relationship; it will keep hurting not knowing the reason. The hurt will change in time, until a scar tissue cover the wounds, but I will always wonder and will always ask why.
Thanks for reading.
Peace and Love,
Dr. Sarah AK Ahmed
Location: Hamilton Ontario CA
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